I have been a student, aficionado, and advocate of the Guitar, Bass, Banjo, Ukulele, and Mandolin for many years. I have encouraged many a “wish-I-could –play” wannabes to set aside their excuses and apprehension about playing a stringed instrument and to simply, and fairly, give it try. To that pursuit I would like to debunk the most common three misconceptions that I have heard over the years.
#1 My fingers are too fat!
This one tops my list. I can tell you from experience that I know or have met musicians of every size and shape and certainly some were hefty souls, but I can also tell you that I haven’t met anyone handicapped by the size of their fingers. The novice needs to understand that after learning proper fretting technique that the size of their fingers will not impede their playing. Think about it, if it were true there would only be trim or skinny mandolin players. Check out Israel Kamakawiwo'ole on you tube with his tiny Ukulele, this should put this point in perspective for you.
#2 My fingers lack coordination
• 1. skill in performing tasks, especially with the hands: "her dexterity with chopsticks" synonyms: deftness, adeptness, adroitness, agility, nimbleness
You may have at one time or another tried to make a chord or play a simple melody on an instrument perhaps only to find that even though your brain was telling your fingers to move in a specific way, they just would not. This is because you have not developed the dexterity necessary to complete the task.
The good news is this is very easy to develop (yes for you too!)
Think of it like this, if you went to the Gym to lift weights for the first time, you would not expect yourself to start with heavy weights, your muscles would have to adapt to the task but soon you would be increasing the weight load as you built strength. The muscles in your hands are the same way; of course you can’t make the chords right now, but as you practice basic exercises (that you will be able to do right away), everything thing else will fall in place. So stop blaming your fingers!
Only the ignorance of technique can stop you!
Here is a good video for finger exercising
#3 I don’t have any musical ability
Maybe you don’t have any musical ability, maybe you do. But the truth is you don’t need much in the way of natural ability to master enough skill to accompany yourself as you sing or hum your favorite tunes. This is especially true of the ukulele. My main instrument is guitar and I have always considered my playing more about rhythm than anything else. In other words, if you can snap your fingers or stomp you foot to the beat of a song, you only have to turn that into a “flicking of your wrist” as you brush the strings (strumming). I do this pretty well and when the mood strikes me right I can play my guitar like I’m ringing a bell but sometimes I can’t tell you what key I’m in! As you develop and discover your musical self you may become a virtuoso or maybe only a hack but a least you didn’t let excuses keep you from trying! Good luck!